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The Legacy

Bern & Jack was born out of love and admiration for two extraordinary women who shaped my life — my grandmothers, Bernice and Jacquelyn. Their lives were earnest, yet captivating. a timeless reminder that through compassion and resilience, we can conquer any challenge that comes our way.

Bernice was a force of nature, an entrepreneur, and a healer. Her fiery spirit and unwavering determination inspired all who knew her. Growing up, I watched her turn dreams into reality, building a successful business that touched the lives of countless people. She taught me the power of believing in oneself and taking risks, proving that even in the face of adversity, we can triumph.

Jacquelyn, on the other hand, was an educator, dedicating her life to nurturing young minds. Her gentle nature and patient guidance created an environment where curiosity thrived. I remember sitting in her dining room, captivated by her stories and life lessons. She taught me the significance of education and the power it holds to transform lives.

Through her journey, she instilled in me the values of knowledge and lifelong learning.
Both of my grandmothers shared a deep faith in God, a belief that sustained them through the trials and tribulations of life. They taught me the strength that comes from a steadfast connection with the divine. Prayer, they would say, was the cornerstone of their existence, a compass guiding them through the darkest of storms.

Bern & Jack stands as a tribute to these incredible women, carrying forward their legacy of healing, educating, and overcoming challenges. The company embodies their values, a commitment to serving others and making a positive impact in the world.

Greetings!

When I was eleven years old, I experienced a scar on my soul that left a lasting mark. It shaped the way I saw the world and planted seeds of fear, sadness, and anger that grew into the dominant emotions of my life. Though there were moments of happiness, they were fleeting. My inner world was largely clouded by the shadows of pain and confusion.

On March 2, 2016, I shared a final dance with my mother and held her hand as she took her last breaths. That moment was both beautiful and heartbreaking. At just 67 years old, her life had come to an end, but what saddened me the most was the realization that she spent most of her adult life trapped in sadness and depression. Her scar, much like mine, appeared around the age of eleven. But unlike me, hers never healed.

As I prepared to honor the life of the beautiful soul I called Momma, I felt a profound awakening. I realized that the pain I carried wasn’t just mine—it was part of a larger thread of ancestral trauma woven through generations of my family. I was determined to break the cycle. I did not want to reach the end of my journey carrying the same pain and regret. I wanted to heal not just for myself, but for those who came before me and those who would come after.

In that moment of clarity, I resolved dig deeper into healing the wounds in my soul and confronting the patterns of trauma that had been passed down. I made a commitment to create a life filled with wholeness, joy, and purpose, and to honor my ancestors by doing the work they couldn’t complete.

Why Holistic Living Matters

We carry the weight of our unhealed emotions, energetic imbalances, and inherited traumas, often without realizing the toll they take on our lives. My healing journey taught me that true transformation begins when we address the roots of our pain—those scars and stories that shape our thoughts, emotions, and actions. Living holistically means acknowledging and nurturing the interconnectedness of our mind, body, and spirit while honoring the lineage that brought us here.

Through the wisdom of Ifa, the healing energy of Reiki, and the grounding power of yoga, I found the tools to release my pain, clear ancestral burdens, and reclaim my light. These practices taught me to honor my emotions, clear stagnant energy, and align with my higher purpose.

Today, my mission is to guide others through their own healing journeys. Whether you’re burdened by sadness, trapped in anger, or yearning for joy, I am here to help you heal your emotions, restore balance to your energy, and address the ancestral trauma that may be holding you back. Together, we can create a life of alignment, empowerment, and holistic well-being—one that allows you to live fully and unapologetically in your truth while honoring the strength and resilience of your lineage.

May you reap blessings on your journey,

Iya Sola Aje